Honouring Tayla and Murphy, and supporting families left behind
Be kind.
TBMM exists to keep the memories of Tayla Black and Murphy Margaret alive, to foster connection in Central Queensland and to create moments of kindness and care in the places where they are needed most.
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Personal connection and care
About TBMM Be Kind
In August 2023, Gerry and Anmaree Black lost their only child, Tayla, and her daughter, Murphy Margaret, to a tragic act of family violence in Rockhampton. In the midst of unimaginable loss, Anmaree and Gerry chose to channel their grief into something meaningful. Starting with one bumper sticker, TBMM Be Kind now exists to keep Tayla and Murphy's memory alive and to ensure other families don't walk this path without support.
The 'Be Kind' you see on our merchandise is in Tayla's handwriting, taken from a card she wrote. Kindness was how Tayla lived, and it's how we honour her and Murphy.
Our impact
Here’s how we are addressing the family violence struggles in Central Queensland
Community Connection
Regular moments of care and meet-ups for immediate families who are affected by family violence homicides. You’re not alone.
Practical Support
Connecting families with trusted local services like CQ Healthy Families and providing an overview of the support networks in Rockhampton. We want to help with immediate needs when the world is imploding around you.
Events and Awareness
Participating in community initiatives, running Be Kind Day and Murphy’s Month, and attending events that raise awareness of family violence.
Resources (coming soon)
Practical guide and information for families facing the unthinkable. When you need a reminder about what to do now, how to get through the day, and where to turn for help.
Be kind, always
How do I get involved?
Our journey as a charitable organisation is just starting and we’d love your involvement. Here’s a few ways to help.
Make a Donation
Your financial support helps us provide practical help when families need it most.
Buy TBMM Merchandise
All purchases are channelled into support for families and spreading Tayla’s message of day-to-day kindness.
Attend Events
You’re warmly invited to community gatherings, Be Kind Day and the Be Kind Rugby Round at Gymmy Grounds.
Partner With Us
We’re supported by incredible Rockhampton businesses, and we couldn’t do what we do without them.
Show kindness in action
Support TBMM as we support CQ families
We know that your hard-earned cash is valuable, and we make every donation count. While we’re not a deductible gift recipient (yet!), all donations go directly towards our events, or purchase of new stock for our TBMM Shop.
Our entire committee volunteers their time, along with our incredible partners, to ensure we can give back to the Rockhampton and Central Queensland community in the spirit of being kind, always.
Supporting TBMM
Partners & Sponsors
TBMM Be Kind provides peer support and community connection.
We are not a crisis service. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 000. For 24/7 crisis support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or Lifeline (13 11 14).
